The most simplest question in Life Coaching is asking the client “what do you want out of life?”, and the client usually replies saying, “an amazing job, being financially independent, and a great relationship”, but when I then ask if they are willing to go through a long 50 hour work schedule per week, plus working on weekends, sacrificing personal life for their career?, or “are you ready to struggle through tough conversations and prepared to go through feelings of hurt and anxiety to find the perfect partner?”, they usually just stare at me with a confused face….
HOW WILLING ARE YOU TO FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT?- YOUR STRUGGLES DETERMINE YOUR SUCCESS – YOU CAN’T HAVE A PAIN FREE LIFE
How can you want a fit body and not be in the gym for at least 5 times a week and not be willing to appreciate the pain and physical stress that comes with living inside a gym for hours and hours and not being allowed to eat your favourite sweets, savouries and fast food, and dining in various restaurants?
DO YOU REALLY WANT IT?
Do you want an amazing job? Are you ready to sacrifice hours of your personal time? weekends, going through awkward conversations with your boss and colleagues, meeting deadlines and have a desk full of paperwork? People want to be rich but without any risks, without sacrificing and suffering…
Do you want to find your perfect match? Are you ready to go out there and attract someone, by flirting with them?, expect emotional turbulence that comes with weathering rejections, go through tension that never gets released and spending hours on a phone that never rings, or sending text messages that never get replied to? You can’t win if you don’t play.
IF YOU REALLY WANT IT, DO WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO GET IT